Eloping in NYC is like stepping into your own 90's rom com. You've got this vibrant city as your backdrop, painting each moment with its iconic landmarks. From charming rooftop gardens to quaint cafes, there's a spot for every couple. And let's talk about convenience—the marriage license process? Piece of cake! Plus, there's no shortage of seasoned officiants ready to sprinkle that extra magic onto your ceremony, making it uniquely yours. But what does the process look like logistically? I've got the answers to all your questions below.
How to elope in NYC
Legal Requirements for Eloping in NYC
To get married in New York City, you need to obtain a marriage license from any city clerk's office in the city. This must be done at least 24 hours prior to your wedding. After obtaining the license, there is a 24-hour waiting period before you can hold your ceremony or elopement.
Here are some quick facts to note:
There are no walk-ins allowed
There is a max guest count of 4 people for your ceremony
Masks are optional
Booking your marriage license appointment is different from booking your ceremony appointment
Book your ceremony appointment as early as you can. There may be a few spots available days before your elopement but to avoid stress, book it asap
Virtual marriage license appointments are released 3 weeks ahead of time, every Thursday at 9am
Weekday ceremonies can be performed 24 hours after a couple gets their license
In-person appointments for licenses and ceremonies are released 3 weeks ahead of time every Monday morning at 9am
The elopement process including check in can take about 30 - 45 mins. The ceremony is typically no longer than 5 mins
To book a ceremony appointment, you need to have either a marriage license number or an upcoming appointment to get your license
Both you and your partner must physically be in New York State to be given a marriage license. Keep this in mind if you opt to get your marriage license virtually
You must bring valid photo identification (like a driver's license or passport) and know your social security numbers
The fee for a marriage license is $35, payable by credit card or money order
The fee for a marriage ceremony is $25, payable by credit card or money order
The Marriage License expires in 60 days after the time of purchase, except for active military personnel
An officiant is a person who leads the ceremony when you elope. It's essential to find someone who resonates with you and your partner's values and beliefs. Listens well and understands your vision for the day. A good officiant can help create a meaningful and personal ceremony, tailor-made for you both. When choosing an officiant, consider these factors:
Compatibility
Finding Your Officiant
Ensure the officiant’s style aligns with what you want for your ceremony.
Communication
They should be responsive and open to your ideas.
Experience
Look for someone with experience in officiating weddings, particularly elopements.
Legal Requirements
Make sure the officiant is legally able to marry you in NYC.
Budget
Confirm their fee and what is included in the price.
Here are some of my favorite officiants in NYC:
Rev Annie
Once Upon A Vow
NYC Officiant
Illuminating Ceremonies
Locations
To find the perfect location for your NYC elopement, consider spots like Central Park, Brooklyn Bridge, or the High Line. These locations offer beautiful backdrops for your special day and are popular choices for couples looking to elope in the city. Think about what scenery you envision for your ceremony and what atmosphere you want to create. Factors such as privacy, accessibility, and any permit requirements should also be taken into account when choosing the best location for your elopement.
/ Central Park
/ Bethesda Terrace
/ Cherry Hill Fountain
/ Private Stoop: Permission necessary
/ NYPL Fountain
/ Gramercy Park: Key needed
/ Gapstow Bridge
/ The Highline
/ NYC Studio
/ Brooklyn Promenade
/ Elizabeth Street Garden
/ Washington Square Park
/ Four Freedoms Park
/ Pebbles Beach
/ Madison Square Park
Transportation
When eloping in NYC, consider transportation and logistics to make your day run smoothly. Here are some key points:
Choose transportation
Decide how you will get around the city, whether by subway, taxi, ride-sharing services, or renting a car
Plan your route
Map out your locations in advance to avoid last-minute confusion
Check traffic
Consider traffic conditions and peak hours to schedule your activities effectively
Pack essentials
Make sure to have all necessary documents, permits, and items for the day
Outfits
You've chosen an intentional way of saying your "I do's". You want this day to feel like you. Let your wardrobe mirror that intention! Invite color. Wear vintage. Wear a pant suit or a shorter dress! And most of all, choose something you're comfortable in. We'll likely be walking around a lot so make sure you bring comfy shoes to swap when walking from location to location.
Time
Time recommendations depend on the location you're planning to elope: